Families R USS

How to make the decision of how many children to have? That is the big question but there is so much more to it than meets the eye. In an idealistic world i think i would have 4 children In all honestly i think thats how many i would like. I love having my children around me & the thought of when they grow older is quite beautiful, I like the big family thing & although it would be crazy busy and full on a lot of the time that sits ok with me. Thing is its not as easy as saying ok thats how many we will have. I worry that after having Lacey-Jay its a sign we shouldn't push our boundaries and take it as a warning that we shouldn't attempt a 3rd or even a 4th. My body doesn't do Pregnancy its trouble after trouble. Money's a big thing & as much as it sounds kinda materialistic you do have to factor that into the equation. Would you be able to afford to have the lifestyle you may so wish? Or just live comfortably? Two children is common

After a recent visit with a new Dr i walk away feeling over whelmed with all the information. My brain trys to store this correctly & as i try to get my head around what will now be my everyday existence i cant quite comprehend where to start first. Boy was i not expecting that one. Thing is is have Psoriatic Arthritis which i knew and to a lot of people i think the over all feeling is "Arthritis yeah heaps of people millions in fact have it" Thing is there is so many different types & i was non the wiser myself until now. I kinda had the idea that it was just something that effects every person when they become older.. How naive was i to think this was something that i could push to the back of my head buried so deep that i wouldn't have to accept and deal with it. Yes i have this & turns out i have it really bad !! See i have had the effects of this for just under a year now and already this is attacking both my knees my ankles, all my f